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 The majority of people are attracted to interesting people. Therefore, if you wish to be attractive to the ideal woman, it would make sense that you work on making yourself an interesting person.  Where can you start?

Be educated.

The more you know about what is going on in the world, the more you can contribute to a conversation. Fascinating people are the ones who can bring something new to a conversation and share fun facts. march12bloga Keep yourself educated by reading books and staying up-to-date with current events in the news and pop culture. A real easy way to add to the conversation about a current event is to do a little research. An example of this is the British Petroleum oil rig that blew up in the Gulf a few years ago. A question which occurred to me, and that the news people didn’t bring up: how many oil wells are there in the Gulf? My research only took a few minutes and I had my answer. There are thousands of oil wells in the Gulf.

Basically, anything you hear on the news is under-reported. If the current event is something everyone is talking about, you can become the most knowledgeable person with a little research.


Create more stories to share.

Interesting people get busy doing new things and having new experiences. Get yourself out of the house! See new places and meet new people. march12blogb (1)

You don’t have to travel to a different continent to get an interesting experience. Even taking a two hour road trip across the state can be an exciting adventure. Make it a goal to take a road trip every four to six weeks. Pick a new destination and research on what there is to see and what do when your arrive.


Be engaged with what you do.

The easiest way to become interesting to other people is to be interested in what they have to say. Open ended questions really can get some people to open up. Acknowledge that you are paying attention by asking insightful questions. march12blogc (1)

Warning: When presented with an open-ended question, some people may respond with a “Deer in the Headlights,” look. There is no guarantee that you will end up talking with a stimulating person at a party, an event, meeting,etc.  Be as interesting as you can be and see what develops.